Mr. HalfFull and I participated in VaughanTown (an English immersion program for Spanish business people) as English-speaking volunteers. And boy did we speak! It was a heck of a lot of talking for an introvert like myself, but even Mr. HalfFull’s extroverted social battery was happily drained by the end of our week.
When we applied for VaughanTown as we were planning our 30/40 World Tour, we were excited at the prospect of cultural exchange with Spaniards. After traveling for an extended period of time, all the churches, monuments, and town squares start to blend together. What you really want is the human story and the insider’s perspective.
As a tourist, it’s hard to meet natives; you don’t travel in the same circles. But even if you did happen to meet each other, how would you start a deep and meaningful conversation? It’s unlikely to happen, so VaughanTown is a great way to capture real Spaniards and make them talk to us!
Meals
Our final dinner at VaughanTown was served on a long banquet table instead of the 4-6 person tables for normal meals
Each day at VaughanTown, we were required to eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner in groups of 4 or 6 with even numbers of Spaniards and Anglos to keep the conversation going. Lunch and dinner were always full service meals at the 4-star hotel with an abundance of wine.
One-On-One Sessions
Mr. HalfFull in a One-on-One Session on the hotel steps
But the majority of our time was spent in One-On-One Sessions with one Anglo and one Spaniard. Anglos were given an idiom to explain to the Spaniard, but aside from that we were just supposed to talk about anything for 50 minutes. As you can imagine from normal life, this can be easy or excruciating depending on the person.
Ms. HalfEmpty waits in the hotel lobby for her One-On-One partner
I learned a lot about the lives of these Spaniards from the personal to the cultural. I even got to ask my burning questions about Spanish life. I was supremely disappointed to find out that most working Spaniards do not take a siesta in modern life.
My favorite part of Spanish life was just shattered! But the Spaniards explained that it’s not really practical to drive home for lunch and siesta if you have a long commute. It just extends the day, and they would rather finish their workday earlier. Makes sense, but still disappointing.
Ms. HalfEmpty walking back to the hotel
Remember when I said we did a lot of talking? There was also a lot of walking. The grounds around the hotel were beautiful, so we would often walk and chat for our session.
The closest town, El Barco de Ávila, was cleverly located a 25-minute walk away from the hotel. So just as you approached the edge of town (with all the Spanish speakers), it was time to return to the English enclave at the hotel.
Ms. HalfEmpty in her room during a free session
After a 10 minute break, it was time to move to your next One-On-One Session. Sometimes, there were more Anglos than Spaniards and we would get a session of free time. My introverted self loved these breaks. I often used them for another siesta, in addition to the one after lunch.
El Barco de Ávila
Mr. HalfFull was able to game his way into town. Some of the Spaniards requested permission to buy fruit during their One-On-One Sessions. So 2 Spaniard and 2 Anglos (including Mr. HalfFull) spent their session driving to town.
Mr. HalfFull and the fruit buyers enjoy a surreptitious beer in town
They were supposed to buy fruit and come back to our English oasis. But instead, they stopped for some beers. When the program organizer found out, she wasn’t pleased. But it actually turned out to be a serendipitous occasion.
One Anglo traveled to VaughanTown from India. His trip ended up taking 3 days, so he missed the group bus from Madrid. He had to find his own transportation to the nearby town, but never made it to the hotel. Apparently, the program sent a taxi to town to pick him up, but they missed each other.
Animal hides hanging from a balcony in town
So what is a weary traveler to do? Grab a beer, of course!
Look Mom, I tried to go to church, but they wouldn’t let me in!
Somehow Mr. HalfFull heard the Indian man speaking English in the bar and had a feeling it was the missing Anglo from VaughanTown. Mr. HalfFull introduced himself and bear hugs ensued! The Indian traveler was so relieved to be rescued by VaughanTown comrades.
Aqueduct in El Barco de Ávila
The rest of us got to town later in the week on a group outing. We all walked to town on perhaps the hottest day during at the sun’s peak!
El Barco de Ávila is a quaint village with Roman and Arab influences. It contains a small aqueduct, a castle, chapels, and even an old prison. It was fun to finally enter the town we had been walking toward and peering at from afar all week.
Entertainment
Mr. HalfFull in his role as El Torro!
Sometimes, instead of One-On-One Sessions, you would be pulled into a group to prepare entertainment — a skit, dance, etc. Mr. HalfFull often got roped into these.
The bull fighter, Carrie, and Lady Gaga dance as Darth Vader watches. This is high art, people!
In his first performance, he was a bull. He really took this role to heart. He tore through the space running into chairs. He even knocked over a floor lamp, that I was able to catch from my seat. The other characters from his skit were Carrie from Sex & the City, Lady Gaga, Darth Vader, the famous Spanish bull fighter Enrique Ponce, and Big Bird. Hilarity ensued.
Mr. HalfFull and his fellow Bollywood dancers perform “Jai Ho”
Mr. HalfFull also started his training as a Bollywood dancer at VaughanTown. If you know Mr. HalfFull, you know that he believes that nothing good can come from a man dancing past age 25 (unless it’s his wedding). So you can imagine my surprise when he danced to “Jai Ho” from Slumdog Millionaire.
Ms. HalfEmpty teaches Lindy Hop
My contribution to the entertainment was to teach Lindy Hop, the original swing dance from the late 1930s. I taught Lindy-style Charleston to the group and ended with a mini-performance.
Mr. MC brews queimada in an elaborate ceremony
On our final night, Mr. MC brewed queimada for the group in the Galician tradition. The base of this concoction is aguardente, a spirit with high alcohol content, that burns to a fiery blue. While Mr. MC was preparing the punch, others read a spell to confer special powers to the queimada and those drinking it. It was a rather spooky affair.
Ms. HalfEmpty is not a fan of queimada
When I saw that the queimada was flavored with coffee, I was quite excited to try it! But it was terrible. I couldn’t even finish my little cup.
The Experience
By the end of the week, I was worn out! But I am glad that I had the chance to get to know all sorts of Spaniards from recent college graduates to medical doctors and government workers. Plus, I also got a chance to get out of the city, see a bit of the idyllic country-side, make some personal connections, and even learn about my namesake for free.
- How do you meet natives while traveling? Do you enjoy making deeper connections?
- Have you ever found your limit on interaction?
- What ridiculous characters have you played?
- If you went to a place like VaughanTown, what talent would you share?
#1 by Sarah P. on August 12, 2012 - 8:21 AM
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I had been thinking that Vaughan Town would be a fun sort of thing to try at some point, but now that I hear about having to provide some sort of entertainment in front of everybody… I’m out! I am mortified by those types of things! And I don’t have a good performance talent! Once I went to a restaurant at the beach where in order to receive the food you’d ordered, you had to sing a little response to the singing waitstaff who brought it to you. It was a horrible, horrible experience.
And it’s true that my limit on interaction is pretty low. I think I would be flagging after one full morning at a place like Vaughan Town!
I did enjoy making deeper connections with Italians when I lived in Florence and Siena, though I’m sad to say that I haven’t kept up well with them. I got to connect with a distant relative (not by blood), a cousin of a great-aunt or something, who is/was a native Italian living in Florence. That was wonderful… and we wrote letters for a long time afterwards. But she was about 95 years old when I was in Italy, 11 years ago, and the last time we wrote was when our twins had just been born. After that, things just got crazy on our end, and by the time I came up for air and thought about writing to her, it was so many years later… and I had no way of knowing details of her health or passing.
#2 by Ms. HalfEmpty on August 12, 2012 - 7:26 PM
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Providing entertainment is not a requirement, but it’s highly encouraged. Do you really think Matt knew anything about being a bull or Bollywood dancing? He just made it up as he went along. Really most of it wasn’t so much talent, as the hilarious entertainment value of lack of talent. =) Did you watch any of the videos? Even if you did get roped into a skit, it wouldn’t be like your beach restaurant because you’d be with a group, not singing a solo (unless you wanted to).
You could volunteer to talk about your time in Italy, the process of creating stained glass, writing poetry, owning a business, or even life with twins. One guy talked about his trip to India. Another woman created a fun quiz that she read to the group and we answered in teams. So the thing you decide to share with the group can be less performance oriented, if you desire. But as an Anglo, you aren’t required to do a presentation.
That’s great that you were able to keep up the letters for years. Were they all in Italian?
#3 by Etidian on August 23, 2012 - 8:01 PM
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i’m from spain i never do siesta. i dont know anybody who do it — only babies, little children and old people. And of course i usually call people after or before lunch or dinner time. so its usaully that i call people at 4 pm, and all my friends and all people that i know do the same.
#4 by Ms. HalfEmpty on August 24, 2012 - 9:48 AM
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I’ll stick with the babies and old people!
#5 by Sarah P. on August 12, 2012 - 8:38 AM
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Also, just a question… when I read the title of this post, I wondered if maybe “expose oneself” was one of the idioms you had to discuss??
#6 by Ms. HalfEmpty on August 12, 2012 - 7:28 PM
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Haha! No, I don’t think “expose oneself” would be very useful for business! But there were a few strange ones that I had never heard before; I think they were British.
#7 by Karl Gorman on August 12, 2012 - 9:28 AM
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Oh memories… sweet warm memories.
I would recommend Vaughantown to everyone who is interested even in the slightest sense.
Thank you, Teresa, for putting this up.
– Karl Gorman. (a.k.a. Darth Vader, in this case.)
#8 by Ms. HalfEmpty on August 12, 2012 - 7:28 PM
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You’re welcome, Darth Vader!
#9 by Kathleen Egan on August 22, 2012 - 8:58 PM
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In fact the Vaughantown set up seems like one of the most effective ways for someone to gain language skills (I mean the Spaniard Business people) by being fully immersed in meeting and speaking with native English speakers.
Building confidence in speaking is one of the hardest skill to sustain when you learn a foreign language
The other thing that I like about the set up is that you were equals, the Spaniards and the English speaking group interacting and that also builds a desire to talk rather than a teacher/student relationship
I also wondered about your choice of “expose oneself” Was it because you had to share personal stories??
#10 by Ms. HalfEmpty on August 23, 2012 - 7:12 AM
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You’re right. VaughanTown brings the English speaking world to Spain, so it’s more like living in an English speaking country than a formal course. Anglos were instructed to get the Spaniards talking rather than correcting them (unless they specifically requested corrections). So that helped to build confidence. We also could pick our own topics of conversation. People get tired of small talk pretty quickly, so we ended up discussing some interesting subjects.
We “exposed ourselves” to the Spaniards because we had to talk about ourselves and share hidden talents (like Bollywood dancing and becoming a bull). The title got you intrigued, but no one got naked!
#11 by Thifani on August 23, 2012 - 6:01 PM
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I usually stay in the office between 2 and 4, as it’s too far to travel to go home, and I am still amamzed by how many (Spanish) shops (our clients) call us during that time! I still answer the phone sometimes, just to say that the offcie is now closed and they will all be back around 4pm (which means 4.30!!)
#12 by Ms. HalfEmpty on August 24, 2012 - 9:50 AM
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Perhaps siestas are a thing of days gone by, and don’t really work in the modern office setting. So sad! I’m all for more sleep and less work. =)
#13 by Manish on March 15, 2013 - 6:51 AM
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He He He…… so cute
Btw I’m so thankful that you rescued me at such a tiny town. I wish to get lost again and be found by you guys once again
Big hugs
Manish
#14 by Ms. HalfEmpty on March 15, 2013 - 9:00 AM
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Getting lost the first time wasn’t traumatic enough??? Mr. HalfFull will be on the lookout for you in the future. =)